We have to be able to predict the future to some degree. For instance, predicting that if we drink the expired, foul-smelling milk, we will probably be sick. That is a way of predicting the future. To function as an adult, we make these sorts of predictions constantly, and in this way our ability to predict the future is a necessary skill.
But with fortune telling thoughts, you are always predicting the worst possible outcome for yourself. It is like owning a crystal ball that predicts only misery. You predict that things will turn out badly, even if you have absolutely no proof that this will be the case.
Of course, some events do have the potential for danger, and we need to be able to assess the risk in those situations. However, fortune telling is not an accurate assessment based on evidence, it is a global assumption we make without considering the real odds.
Fortune Telling can take many forms,sometimes it starts with a “What if” – thesetypes of thoughts relate to feelings of somehow not being able to cope ormanage in the future.
Examples can include:
This type of thinking will lead to real problems, because if you think things are going to turn out wrong, then you may act in a way that allows them to go wrong. Automatic thoughts, if left unchecked, may lead to concerns like anxietyand/or depression. Fortune telling is often connected to anxiety, particularly anticipatory anxiety – worrying aboutsomething that hasn’t happened yet, but might happen…in a second, or a minute,or a day, or a month from now.
What should I do?
· From time to time, bad things do happen. There are always some obstacles on the path of life. But much like there are obstacles on the road, so there are lucky breaks, progress and positive responses. Having realistic expectations and focusing on the positive, without jumping to any conclusions when you don’t have the facts, is the optimal way of thinking.
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