Labeling is when you attach a negative label to yourself or to someone else. This distortion, a more severe type of overgeneralization, occurs when a person labels someone or something based on one experience or event.
Instead of believing that he or she made a mistake, people engaging in this type of thinking might automatically label themselves as failures. In other words, you allow your mistake to define you.
Chances are that you suffer from this distortion when you call yourself names or terms that carry negative connotations. When this happens, your brain takes these signals and run with it, leading to a self-fulfilling prophecy.
For Example: You make a mistake on a form you filled out and it's sent back to you. So, you decide “I'm such a loser” or “I'm so stupid” rather than thinking “I made a mistake as I had a busy day when I was filling this out”.
More examples of labeling statements include:
The unintended consequence is that you begin to feel like a loser even though you’re not. Your body has been primed to respond to negative thoughts and so it responds accordingly.
Labeling is a cognitive distortion in which we generalize by taking one characteristic of a person and applying it to the whole person. Because I failed a test, I am a failure. Because she is frequently late to work, she is irresponsible. If someone responded in a brusque way, he is a jerk. Rather than more objectively thinking about the behavior, when we engage in labeling, we globally describe the whole person. As a result, we view the entire person through the label, such as jerk, and filter out any information that doesn’t fit under the umbrella of the label.
Labeling causes problems when we apply it to others. If you label your husband as uncaring because he appears not to listen to you when you talk about your day, it can feel miserable. You’re married to an uncaring person. But if you consider the behavior as the problem rather than the person, it becomes easier to discuss with him and potentially solve. For instance, it may be that he needs time to unwind at the end of the day, or has difficulty concentrating in general.
What should I do?
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